I’ve been eating a lot of frogs recently, and I only have myself to blame. #42 Eat that frog couple has turned out to be an extremely efficient tool. So far I ate 29 of the 30 planned frogs, and have done things of unimaginable levels of Bureaucracy. This has been one of the most useful challenges so far, for fun and for productivity. If possible in the future I’ll try to make other things into a couple and see how it goes. Here are the frogs eaten thusfar, this was a specially bureaucratic month, both because bureaucracy is really aversive, and because there were high stakes:
1 Male – Solve long-versus short term crises
Female – Restart using blog for challenges
2 Male – Set up so I can freeze blood cells
Female – Finish writing Elon Musk Grant
3 Male – Fill in bureaucratic Phoebe System
Female – Set up dates for the near future
4 Male – Find out what happened to my Capes
Female – Pick I-20
5 Male – Fill in Phoebe with Adviser
Female – I-20 related document delivered to correct entity.
6 Male – Do all necessary Visa things
Female – Write the addendi for Musk Grant.
7 Male – Get foggy PDF to Indian guy to print, make Citi generate Checks on the fly
Female – Cause someone else to actually understand the grant system. (most likely Maite)
8 Male – Reorganize entire Wunderlist – (fail)
(Outdoors day lasted to 23:40, I believe the failure mode of not doing this after 23:40 was not using the computer to begin with, and having web access on my cell phone, which I fixed.)
Female – Have a delicious outdoors day.
9 Male – Reorganize entire Wunderlist
Female – First item of Wunderlist once done
10 Male – Fix the phone payment
Female – Sleep early
11 Male – Get Cryonics stuff more organized
Female – Tackle reviewed problems with the proposal.
12 Male – Study grammar for an hour
Female – Have a beautiful encounter with a great human being
13 Male – Schedule Dentist, Doctor, and Have a plan for sleeping 8 hours straight at night.
Female – Learn Fourier transform
14 Male – Solve the Berkeley bureau-crisis
Female – Write down the next blog entry.
But eating frogs has an unintended consequence: I’ve been putting in a lot of weight. Ok, maybe that was correlation and not causation. Nevertheless, it’s been a while since I entered anything like a diet, and now I have a better model upon which to base a diet to begin with. Here is an instant gratification monkey from the model. There is one of these in your head, right now.
As long as the instant gratification monkey, that little guy who makes conscientious future-you never exist, and present-you never as focused is kept at bay somehow, preferably without the emergency mode panic monster, we’re off to a good start. Here is a gratuitous picture of Musk holding a panic monster.
Frequently people will try to establish a diet by the things they don’t want to want to eat. Like chocolate or cheesecake. There are many problems with that approach.
What is wrong with this attempt is that it ends up being a negative list. A list of what what I do not want to intake. Since possibilities are infinite, this will give me ridiculous cognitive load, and that is a problem. Another problem is that brains are not so good at processing negatives, so please don’t think of a white bear and don’t feel enticed by the fact that you cannot eat strawberry ice-cream.
Well, here is simple solution, which I used for a food diet before, and worked great: Name not what you cannot do, but what you are allowed to do. Way fewer bits, way easier to check!
Food example: I’ll eat only plants, lean fish and chicken, nuts, fruits, whole pasta, beans and Chai Lattes.
We are better at checking for category inclusion than exclusion. There are so many available categories to exclude from that we don’t feel bad that we “forgot” to check for that one. Then after you let yourself indulge in a tiny one, a small one doesn’t seem that bad, and snowball effect does the rest. We sneak in connotations to make categories smaller, so our actions stay safely outside the scope of prohibition. Theoretically, we could do the reverse, but it is psychologically much harder. Just try to convince yourself that beef is “lean chicken” to see it.
So let us forget completely about the negative method. There is no kind or class of kinds to avoid. there is only G=Goal and P=Positive, and now there is also T=Time of enforcing, the time during which P is in force, since escape valves might be necessary to avoid “screw that” all-or-nothing effects.
#41 A positive information diet adapted for food:
G=lose 5 kilos in a month.
P=I’ll eat only plants, lean fish and chicken, nuts, fruits, whole pasta, beans and Chai Lattes.
T= All days but Friday
T=When I’m paying for the food
Now there is a simple to check list of things I want to do, I could be doing, and I’ll try to do until G arrives. I can only do those. If x doesn’t belong, don’t do it, that simple. I’m free on Friday or when there is free food to do whatever, thus I don’t feel enslaved by my past self – and the instant gratification monkey doesn’t take control easily. No heavy cognitive load is burning my willpower candle (Shawn Achor 2010) by trying set theory gimmicks to get me to do the wrong thing.
Also, just for public commitment, I currently weight
so the goal is to weight
So please, take your own variation of the:
Positive Information Diet Challenge
Write your G’s (goals) P’s (positives) and T’s (times), and forget about your A’s (Avoids)
I’ll eat only plants, lean fish and chicken, nuts, fruits, whole pasta, beans and Chai Lattes.
I’m doing this for food, you can use it for your information diet- all the emails, messages, news and comic strips. No one is thin enough information diet-wise.
Well let’s try this!
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